BECOMINGHER™ Answers
How to Put God First in Your 20s
Putting God first in your 20s can begin with small, honest rhythms. Learn a practical way to reconnect with God amid work, school, relationships and change.
By Felisha D. McCaskill · Founder of BecomingHER™
The short answer
Putting God first is less about creating a perfect routine and more about inviting Him into your real life. Begin with a few honest minutes, one passage of Scripture and one choice that reflects what you believe.
Start with honesty, not performance
You do not need special words or a perfect morning routine. Tell God what is actually happening: what you fear, what you want, where you feel distracted and what you need help carrying.
A simple beginning might be: “God, help me hear You today. Show me what matters and help me take the next right step.”
Build a rhythm small enough to keep
Choose a consistent moment you already have—before checking your phone, during a commute or before bed. Read a short passage, sit quietly and write one sentence about what you notice.
Jesus teaches us to seek God’s kingdom first in Matthew 6:33. That does not require ignoring school, work or relationships. It means letting God shape how you enter them.
Invite God into the decision in front of you
Faith becomes practical when it meets your calendar, conversations, money and boundaries. Before a decision, ask: “Does this move me toward peace, wisdom, truth and the person God is forming me to be?”
Return when you get distracted
You will miss days and lose focus. Returning is part of relationship. God is not asking you to pretend; He is inviting you to come close again.
What would help you next?
Choose the faith support that meets you where you are.
Open the BECOMINGHER™ 18:25 page and tap Faith for prayer help, encouragement, resources and a clear next step.
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